Paganistan: Notes from the Secret Commonwealth
In Which One Midwest Man-in-Black Confers, Converses & Otherwise Hob-Nobs with his Fellow Hob-Men (& -Women) Concerning the Sundry Ways of the Famed but Ill-Starred Tribe of Witches.
What Do You Say When a Non-Pagan Wishes You 'Good Samhain'?
If you're out of the broom closet, and it hasn't happened to you yet, it will.
A non-pagan wishes you “Good Samhain”* (or Beltane, or Yule).
What do you say in response?
It's an act of hospitality to wish someone joy of their holiday. When that holiday is not one's own, the act becomes even more gracious, an act of grith-weaving. (Grith is an old name for “peace between communities,” as distinguished from frith, which means “peace within a community.”) It says: I know you. It says: I accept you for who you are. It says: I care enough to keep informed.
When someone wishes you Good Samhain (or Beltane, or Yule), the automatic instinct is to return the greeting, but of course when the well-wisher is not pagan, it's bootless to wish her joy of a holiday that she doesn't celebrate. It also denies the difference that she has just so graciously acknowledged.
So what do you say in response to a non-pagan "Good Samhain"?
Best, as always, is to answer graciousness with graciousness, hospitality with hospitality, while at the same time acknowledging difference.
“Thank you,” you say.
*"Happy Samhain" always strikes me as lightweight, maybe even a contradiction in terms. "Merry Samhain"? Keep up with the cowans, shall we? As for the hooves-down internet favorite "Blessed Samhain": ugh. You can keep your white-lighter blessings for all of me, thanks very much.
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