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Deborah Castellano

Deborah Castellano

Deborah Castellano's book, Glamour Magic: The Witchcraft Revolution to Get What You Want (Llewellyn, 2017) is available for pre-order: https://www.amazon.com/Glamour-Magic-Witchcraft-Revolution-What/dp/0738750387

She is a frequent contributor to Occult/Pagan sources such as the Llewellyn almanacs, Witchvox, PaganSquare and Witches & Pagans magazine. She writes about Charms, Hexes, Weeknight Dinner Recipes, Glamoury and Unsolicited Opinions on Morals and Magic at Charmed, I'm Sure.

Deborah's book, The Arte of Glamour is available for purchase on Amazon in paperback and Kindle.

Her craft shop, The Mermaid and The Crow (www.mermaidandcrow.com) specializes in goddess & god vigil candles, hand blended ritual oils, airy hand dyed scarves, handspun yarn and other goodies.

She resides in New Jersey with her husband, Jow and their two cats. She has a terrible reality television habit she can't shake and likes St. Germain liquor, record players and typewriters.

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My mother prefers her visits to our beloved dead to be spontaneous, because that's just so MamaFran, who is also Our Lady of the Cemetery Hacks.  But I really don't much care for that.  Because if I can't go, I feel crummy about it, if I just don't want to go, I feel even more crummy about it and if I do go, there's that frisson of resentment that makes a two hour car ride that much more enjoyable.

When I got this job which now adds even more to my wheel of the year (which was previously "Craft Show Season/Not Craft Show Season", otherwise known as "St. Germain/Campari" and now reads something like "Extensions/Craft Show Season/ Extensions/Tax Season/Summertime Sadness" . . .but writing a book should be no big, right?), I decided to dedicate a weekend to cemetery visits and just rip it off like a band aid.  If others could keep me company, awesome.  If not, that's what audio books were made for. 

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    Once every October I try to get my mother and sister together to decorate our grandmother's and stepfather's stones. It NEVER goe
[Manic Mondays] Current/Upcoming Publications: The Big Reveal/ An Open Love Letter to You

"I never did discover I was beautiful;I made myself beautiful." - Holly Madison

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[The Books of the Dead] A Prelude

Oh, yeah. The vault. That's where the stuff I can't handle goes. Kerplunk! - Finn, Adventure Time

For those of you who have been with me for long enough, you know I have an unsteady relationship with death.  I'm not one of those Witches who can see spirits, talk to ghosts and visualize the other side of the Veil.  Or really visualize very much at all, though that's improved a little over the years.  I tend to "see" things in words, song lyrics, poetry and emotions.  You can imagine how fun this was as a baby Witch where every exercise ever starts with "Visualize . . ."  My sister, the Divine Miss M, who is not a practicing Witch and not really all that Catholic, has a much more open dialogue with the other side than I do and does not spend her dreams with dead people telling them that they're dead like I do.  She catches omens, portents and prophecy at a rate that is completely annoying given that she's not into the occult.

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    I've read that the dead sometimes visit us in our dreams. If you haven't already got it in your collection of books you might wan

I jumped through the window after him.  It was a graceless and slow process but one I completed nonetheless.  There was still blood in my hair, my breath smelled of absinthe and Death in the Afternoon and I clutched my protective locket.   I had somehow managed to lose an hour, an entire loop, like a waking dream.  Back at The McKittrick for another Sleep No More Experience.

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It must be done carefully, delicately.  Too much and you'll tip your hand that you're an imposer.  Too little and you are clearly just a poseur.  There are always places that are forbidden to you - the velvet rope, the back room, the after party, the inner circle.

And I say f**k that.

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Magic is one part trust fall with the universe, one part sheer force of will and one part doing everything you could possibly do to get to the future you're running towards.  It won't make your life suddenly be exactly the way you see it in your head, it won't make everything all better (Nothing makes anything all better) but it will give you clarity, strength and an edge.  Glamour, the ability to be your best self (which includes all of your terrible self as well) will help you with that as well.

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