My muse and I have an on-going disagreement of sorts. Well. I do. She is indifferent as usual to my thoughts and feelings. She clomps into my bedroom, Manolos in hand, Aviation martinis from the Lambs Club and a burrito from Taco Morelos on her breath.
Practical Magic: Glamoury and Tealight Hearths
Charms, Hexes, Weeknight Dinner Recipes, Glamoury and Unsolicited Opinions on Morals and Magic
Deborah's book, The Arte of Glamour is available for purchase on Amazon in paperback and Kindle.
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I know. It’s after Solstice. The sun is returning blahblahblah. That is only in theory in New Jersey at this point until April. We still have many grey days with little sunlight to speak of to get through first.
A few weeks ago, April1 and I went to our favorite Korean Spa. It’s near Mitsuwa which is an amazing Japanese market with ramen, taiyaki and katsu stands that serve food on real plates like civilized people and the seating overlooks the NYC skyline. We go to the spa, then go to Mitsuwa, eat too much and then wander the aisles to look for delicious treats to bring home....
I've never been a Witch in the woods. The thing is, to be a proper Witch in the woods, villagers have to know where you live (no) or you need to do a lot of festivals which involves camping (no)....
For those of you who are new to my writing, I have a very unglamorous (in the conventional sense of the word) day job as a nanny. So it's a lot of screaming, crying, snotting, pooping and food all over the place for generally ten hours a day. In the unconventional sense of the word, it's very glamorous in that my Tiny Charges are small enough to completely believe in magic so that's a lovely thing to be a part of.
My posts right now will be as they once were a while ago. I write primarily on Tiny Charge naps which are getting shorter and less certain than they once were which means I have a short amount of time to write what I'm trying to write and very little time to edit. Without editing, I write a lot of run on sentences so please bear with me as this is a transition period in my life. Right now it's either post without much editing or don't post at all. I would rather post and I hope you would rather that too. I'm working on a lot of behind the scenes things in my "regular" life to try get myself more time to write and to write properly but that takes time. And possibly austerities. But that's the next post....
I Can Take Care of Myself. I've Been Using the Bowflex.
Most occultists/witches have really elaborate shielding systems. I just . . .real talk here. I can't be bothered.
Jow has compared this to constantly eating an egg salad sandwich out of a bus station bathroom vending machine, a la Futurama. It totally squicks out every magical person I know. Just the idea of all of that foreign flora and fauna blossoming into strange malevolence inside me sends a shudder down their collective spines. And I'm a girl who prefers not to swim in public pools and doesn't like to put her hands in things....
A note: I use Goddess/Goddesses as gender neutral terms.
And even God Herself/Has fewer plans than me
But She never helps me out with my scams for free,/ though She grabs a stick and then She points it at me/ When I say nothing, I say everything/ Yeah when I say nothing, I say everything. - Lazaretto, Jack White
A Shrine of One's Own . . .If You Have the Space
When I first started studying in the ADF Druidry Dedicants' Program over a decade ago (. . . sigh), the wording of the program was a little different at the time because it was the second draft. I was studying with my grove, Grove of the Other Gods and our senior druid was authorized to proctor the class with my cycle and she was able to bestow certification of class completion. I need to caveat here as I need to caveat everything when I talk about ADF: My grove was and is a chartered grove, we follow the few rules that we are required to follow. We use the liturgical ADF ritual outline. But I can just about guarantee that our take on 80% of ADF and how we do our rituals besides following the outline is going to be radically different from the rest of ADF. That said, we're also one of the largest groves in the US so it resonates with a lot of people from our tristate area at least. My grove is not very "high Episcopagan", there's not a lot of ritual robes, swords or thee'ing and thou'ing. If that's your bag, rock out! There's room for everyone at the Occultists, Witches and Pagans table in my opinion. Despite being raised Catholic, it's not something that really stuck for me personally but a lot of people find that level of ceremony very moving....