
As a kid, I always felt sorry for my friends with the mean moms.
These were the ones who whisked away that brimming trove of trick-or-treat, and doled it out miserly-wise, one stingy, miserable piece at a time, through the dark days of November and December.
Yes, you got to have candy every day that way, sometimes until nearly Yule, but my heart knew that there was a flaw in that logic somewhere.
If there's only so much joy to go around, is it better to have much joy all at once, or little joys spread out?
The ancestors knew hunger. For most people, in most places, at most times, winter meant hunger. Our bodies remember this, even if we—overfed, under-exercised—forget it.
So at the end of harvest, when—for once—there was plenty, they made a great, shining feast, to have and remember through the lean times ahead.
They called it Samhain.